The Power of Innocence: A Lesson from My Daughter

Children often see the world in a simpler, more innocent way.

They don’t carry the judgments that adults do, and sometimes, they end up teaching us valuable lessons about what really matters.

A recent trip to Target with my daughter, Sophia, reminded me of how we, as adults, can overcomplicate things while children find beauty in the simplest of moments.

A Special Reward for a Big Achievement

Sophia had been working hard on potty training for a whole month.

\To celebrate her success, my husband, Nick, and I promised her a special reward—a trip to Target to pick out a prize.

Sophia had been excited for this moment, and after weeks of effort, she finally got to choose something.

After looking through the aisles, she found it: a beautiful doll dressed as a doctor, with dark brown hair and a stethoscope around her neck.

An Unexpected Question

As we were about to check out, the cashier smiled and asked Sophia, “Are you going to a birthday party?” I could tell she thought the doll was a gift for someone else.

When I explained that Sophia had picked it for herself, the cashier seemed confused. She then asked, “Are you sure this is the doll you want, honey? We have others that look more like you.”

Sophia, not fully understanding, simply replied, “Yes, she’s a doctor like I want to be.” I was taken aback by the cashier’s comment, but Sophia’s response reminded me of the pure way children view the world. For Sophia, it wasn’t about the doll’s appearance—it was about what the doll represented.

The Wisdom of Innocence

Sophia didn’t pick the doll because they looked alike. She chose it because they shared a dream—to be a doctor. In that moment, I realised how important it is to teach our children to value qualities like kindness, intelligence, and dreams over physical appearance.

This experience reminded me that children, in their innocence, often know the truth better than we do.